Чтобы в конце концов закончить этот оффтоп, т.к. вы жаждете науки, вот вам мнения науки собранные в статье журнала "Time":
http://www.time.com/time/magazine/ar...2519-1,00.html
"Will there some day be a "unisex" society with no differences between men and women, except anatomical ones? It seems unlikely. Anatomy, parturition and gender, observes Psychologist Joseph Adelson, cannot be wished away "in a spasm of the distended will, as though the will, in pursuit of total human possibility, can amplify itself to overcome the given." Or, as Psychoanalyst Therese Benedek sees it, "biology precedes personality."
- это про пределы ваших "тенденций" в обществе.
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Though scientists disagree about the precise nature and causes of these differences, there is no argument about two points: society plays a tremendous part in shaping the differences, and most women are capable of doing whatever they want.
Only in the top ranges of ability, says Kagan,
are innate differences significant; for typical men and women, "the biological differences are totally irrelevant." Psychiatrist Donald Lunde agrees. "There is no evidence," he asserts, "that men are any more or less qualified by biological sex differences alone to perform the tasks generally reserved for them in today's societies."
Т.к. я считаю что летчик-истребитель это все-таки не совсем "типичная" специальность, то я ставлю на мужчин. А там где не нужны верхние границы возможностей, средний истребитель из женщины вполне может получиться.